Manager practice

Rehearse the conversation before it matters.

Managers shape five of the six conditions that decide how their team feels at work — and almost none of them were trained for the conversations that do it. Reading about active listening on a slide has never once helped anyone whose team member has just said “I’m fine, honestly”.

So instead of another workshop, your managers practise — with someone who answers back.

See it in a Wellbeing Review
The Minimiser
Sam — The Minimiser
Practice · Supporting a struggling team member
“Honestly, I’m fine. It’s just been a busy few weeks, that’s all.”
“I hear you. I’ve noticed the last few weeks have looked heavier than usual — what’s been taking the most out of you?”
“I suppose… it hasn’t really stopped since the restructure.”
Coaching: you named what you noticed instead of asking “are you okay?” — which is why they gave you something real. Stay quiet here.

Why this is the layer that actually changes conditions

Workload, Control, Reward, Community and Fairness are not set by policy. They are set by what a manager says on a Tuesday afternoon.

Insight without capability changes nothing

A dashboard that says Workload is under strain in Operations is only useful if the managers in Operations can have the conversation that follows.

Training tells. Practice changes.

Nobody learned to handle a difficult conversation from a module. Skill comes from doing it badly somewhere safe, then doing it again.

The cost lands on the manager

Line managers absorb the hardest moments in an organisation with the least support. This gives them somewhere to prepare instead of improvising.

Six questions, then the conversation starts

Setup takes about a minute. The manager answers as themselves, about a conversation they are genuinely dreading — and every answer shapes how the other person behaves.

Setting up your practice
Step 4 of 6
01

The conversation

Wellbeing, absence, return to work, performance, conflict.

02

Who you’re facing

Not a name — a pattern of behaviour you recognise.

03

What’s at stake

What rests on this going well, for them and for you.

04

Your biggest fear

The honest one. This drives everything that follows.

05

Your desired outcome

What a good version of this conversation looks like.

06

Begin grounding

A short pause to settle before it starts.

Step four is the one that matters

Most training assumes managers lack knowledge. Usually they lack nerve. Naming the fear out loud — and then having the simulation press gently on exactly that — is what turns a rehearsal into something that actually changes what happens on the day.

“I’m worried that if I ask, they’ll cry — and I won’t know what to do next.”

So the simulation gives them someone who does become upset — in a room where getting it wrong costs nothing.

Inside a session

This is what practice actually looks like

A manager who suspects someone is struggling, and a team member who would much rather not talk about it.

The Minimiser
Sam — The Minimiser
Supporting a struggling team member · 4 min in
“Honestly, I’m fine. It’s just been a busy few weeks, that’s all.”
“I hear you. I’ve noticed the last few weeks have looked heavier than usual — what’s been taking the most out of you?”
You named what you noticed instead of asking “are you okay?” — a closed question they could have batted away. Stay quiet now.
“I suppose… it hasn’t really stopped since the restructure. I keep meaning to say something.”
“That sounds like a long time to be carrying it on your own.”
This is the moment most managers rush past — you stayed with it rather than jumping to fix. Workload is surfacing here, not motivation.
38%
You talked
4 of 6
Open questions
6 sec
Longest pause held
Workload
Condition surfaced

Practice with people who behave like people

Real team members don’t give tidy answers. Each persona is difficult in a specific, recognisable way — and each one is difficult for a reason a manager needs to understand.

The Minimiser

The Minimiser

“Honestly, it’s nothing.”

Downplays everything. Teaches managers to notice out loud rather than ask a closed question.

The Deflector

The Deflector

“The real issue is the process.”

Redirects to systems, workload, other people. Teaches managers to hold a thread without pushing.

The Over-discloser

The Over-discloser

“There’s a lot going on at home…”

Shares more than a manager is equipped for. Teaches warmth with boundaries, and when to signpost.

The Compliant One

The Compliant One

“No, that all sounds fine.”

Agrees with everything and changes nothing. The hardest of the four, and the most common.

The conversations managers actually dread

Clinician-written, drawn from the moments where good intentions most often go wrong.

“I’m fine, honestly.”

Raising a concern with someone who doesn’t want it raised — without making them defensive or feeling watched.

“I know my work’s slipped.”

Holding a standard and showing care in the same conversation — the hardest balance in line management.

“It’s my first day back.”

Return from long-term absence. A first conversation that often decides whether someone stays.

“I can’t work with them.”

Addressing conflict without taking a side, or letting it quietly become someone’s reason to leave.

“I’m completely underwater.”

When you cannot remove the work — what you can actually offer, and how to say so honestly.

“There’s something I haven’t told you.”

When a conversation goes somewhere clinical — how to respond, and when to hand over.

The debrief is where the learning is

Not a score. A short, specific read on how the conversation actually moved — then the chance to run it again differently.

How much of the conversation the manager took up
Which questions opened things up, and which closed them down
Whether the real issue surfaced — and which condition it points to
One thing to try differently, and a rewind to try it
Session debrief — supporting a struggling team member
Talk ratio
You 38% · Them 62%
Open questions
4 of 6
Longest pause you allowed
6 seconds
Condition surfaced
Workload
Signposted to support
Yes

You moved to solutions at the four-minute mark. Try staying with what they said for one more exchange before offering anything — rewind and see what changes.

Supported, never scored

Nothing goes to HR. Practice sessions are the manager’s own. No transcripts, scores or completion data are shared with anyone above them.

Never tied to performance. Rehearsal is not assessment. It is not used in reviews, capability processes, or promotion decisions.

Clinically bounded. Scenarios are clinician-written, personas are fixed, and every session makes clear where a manager’s role ends and clinical support begins.

Give your managers somewhere to practice

Manager practice is included in every 90-day pilot, alongside the conditions diagnostic and clinician-led support for every employee.